Friday, February 6, 2009


This post will most definitely get cut off short tonight... My fiance doesn't know about this blog and I don't want him to ever find it and he's coming home soon.

I liked the comment I received on my previous post. I wanted to respond to it.

A) I refer to my boyfriend as The BF and my fiance interchangeably. He's a very good boyfriend. My dad always asks me, "hows that friend of your's doing? Does he hit ya?" "No Dad. My boyfriend doesn't hit me."

He's a very sweet guy. We're getting married on March 1st 2010 in Australia. Eloping. Nobody knows about it... except you guys yay! How much does the average wedding cost? Too fucking much, that's how much! People will spend $10,000 on their wedding easily. I think weddings are a huge waste of time and money. The only reason why I want to get married is for the social status, otherwise I'm perfectly comfortable staying common law.

So, if I was going to spend thousands of dollars for a piece of paper, I'm going to do it my way!

Luckily my boyfriend loved my idea of sticking it to our families and getting hitched without anyone knowing. We're breaking a lot of hearts doing what we're doing, but don't they always say, "It's your special day!!!" fuckers.

Plus, as a practicing atheist, I refuse to be married in a church, or other holy setting, or by a priest, or other holy figure head. I'm getting married for the government status, so the justice of the peace will be marrying us!

I didn't realize I'd painted such a negative picture of my fiance. I can assure you we are soul mates and have amazing sex. Not that you brought up my sex life, but for all I know you're questioning that next!

B) I don't hate my job and I don't want to get a new job or change jobs! I went to school for this and I landed a pretty sweet gig out of college. I'm not turning my back on it yet. I'm in it for the long run! My AD position only lasts until the end of next week, then the regular gets back from his trip to Disney Land and I move on to a different position.

Haven't you ever had a stressful day at work and bitched about it to someone? This job IS what I want to do in life, thank you very much!

I should have written a better post... I've had several things come to mind at work, but blogging at work makes me squirrely and now I've forgotten what I was going to say. Having a secret blog is hard! Everything has to be so fucking secretive, you know?


  1. everyone does have those stressful days. I knew you wouldn't quit your job just because of a bad day. It definitely comes with the territory of your job, no denying it.
    Also, I follow this blog as well, but secretly!
    I also wanted to comment on an old blog you did, but for some reason this computer doesn't like to let me do that all the time.
    You should definitely add more pictures of your cats. Cats are great, and everyone loves to see cute pictures of them.

  2. I'm sorry if my previous comment made you upset in any way, shape or form. That was not my intention.

    And I'm glad to hear you are seriously in love and know that your job is what you what to do. I hope the idea of my suggestions made you cringe, because then I know you are happy with your life!

    I can relate to having bad days at work too. As previously stated, everyone has bad days.

    I guess I just took your post to heart a little too much.